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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 16.06.2025 12:57

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

Why do I get stressed when I go to bed?

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

No country for ugly people…

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

Why would a man be interested in an ordinary woman while there are very beautiful and fabulous women?